Stay Calm in the Storm

YMCA Mission Statement: To put Christian principles into practice through programs that build a healthy spirit, mind, and body for all.

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Over the last couple of months, I have been adjusting to the big changes of moving from Texas to Washington. One of those changes has been starting up my new personal training business and all that goes with being an independent business owner. God has greatly blessed me in this pursuit! I was able to contract with the YMCA, and now I am working with clients in a beautiful thriving facility. I am once again helping women reach health and fitness goals. However, just as I have begun to build my business, our country has been thrust into a state of emergency with the COVID-19. We are experiencing circumstances like we have never experienced before in our country. Much is shutting down to try and stop the spread of this virus, and that is effecting all of our lives in many ways!

I shared the following post on Facebook in an effort to offer some comfort and assurance during this unprecedented time, and I wanted to add it to my blog to give encouragement to anyone who might read my blog. WE CAN remain calm and even HAVE a PEACE which surpasses all comprehension in our present circumstances:

I know who goes before me I know who stands behind The God of angel armies Is always by my side The one who reigns forever He is a friend of mine The God of angel armies Is always by my side And nothing formed against me shall stand You hold the whole world in your hands I’m holding on to your promises… (Chris Tomlin)

God is bigger than Coronavirus, bigger than any pandemic, bigger than a shortage of toilet paper!In this world though, we will have trouble and there seems to be a lot of it!

Whether you’re trying to remain on the sidelines of the present circumstances using a sense of humor as you look at the frenzy, or you are feeling some anxiety rising in you…our lives are all beginning to be highly effected by the craziness going on! I’m thankful that the Y continues to remain open right now and I am able to work with clients and continue building my business, however, nothing looks very certain over the next few weeks.

In all of this though, we can experience peace!

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” – John 16:33

God doesn’t promise us an easy life in this world, but He does promise a peace that surpasses all comprehension. And He does promise us His unfailing help.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:6-7

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. – Isaiah 41:10

This kind of peace begins with salvation…“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. – John 3:16

Jesus endured a horrific death on the cross to pay for our sins and make the way for us to be in Heaven for eternity. The moment we ask him to be our Lord and Savior, we instantly can begin to feel the peace and the help to deal with ALL our present circumstances. You can feel that kind of peace for your daily life now because you know for certainty where you will spend your forever!

We can tackle anything when we know Jesus, because we know we will be victorious over every struggle, every epidemic, every sadness, and even death!

“O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?” The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law.But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. – 1 Corinthians 15:55-57

May your day and weeks to come be filled with the PEACE that surpasses comprehension!

Washington cherry blossoms bloom while it’s still winter.

“Our Lord has written the promise of resurrection, not in books alone, but in every leaf in springtime.” Martin Luther

Living Free in the New Year: Part Two

Free to Take the Leap

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7

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In February of 2008, I physically took a leap out of an airplane and experienced an unbelievable thrill as well as a new sense of freedom! This sky diving experience had an emotional side to it too. It ushered in a new phase of life for me as well. I had experienced a great loss, and I knew that I had to brave the world in a new and independent way. However, I also knew that in a way like never before, I would need God’s help and guidance. I would need to draw upon His strength, comfort, mighty power, and love to permeate my whole being moment by moment to navigate life and live it to its fullest. Life here on earth is not safe, but with all trust placed in God, I could travel this new journey with excitement, joy, and a new found freedom! I could be confident even without knowing the next steps because my security was completely placed in our All Mighty God whose love never fails!

Now, 12 years later, that journey has taken me to new places and new levels in my faith walk. Recently, my husband and I took a leap of faith together and moved 2,000 miles out of our comfort zone to follow a plan that we both felt God was calling us to partake in. Before taking that leap, we had much prayer over the decision, much discussion with each other, family and friends, and a lot of back and forth of the pros and cons of the decision. In the end, we felt like God had us in a forward-moving current and the thought of staying in our comfort zone began to feel stifling. Playing it safe actually felt worse than taking the leap into a future of unknowns.

With this reminder from God’s word:

Yahweh my Lord is my strength;
He makes my feet like those of a deer
and enables me to walk on mountain heights!
Habakkuk 3:19

we leaped into the new adventure that God had for us ready to take the ups and downs of the journey with Him by our side.

What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? Romans 8:31

May you be encouraged in this new year to take a leap of faith if God is calling you to step out with Him in a new adventure!

Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3: 13-14

GPS to the Rescue

“In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.” Proverbs 3:6

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I was recently making a short 70 mile trip to see my daughter at college. There are 2 routes available for this destination…one that sticks to main highways and one that takes a more “country road” path. Both ways are very familiar to me as I attended the same college. On this particular day, I wanted to take the favorite country path. I checked the forecast before leaving that morning and there was a 30% chance of rain for later that afternoon. I set out excited to see my daughter soon!

It wasn’t long into my drive that rain began earlier than expected. I reached a stretch of road that was under construction, and in that stretch, the rain became a torrential downpour! So much so, that I could barely see 3 feet in front of me. There was no place to pull off due to a concrete wall because of construction. The lanes narrowed and there were many oncoming construction vehicles coming the opposite direction with their lights beaming in my already blinded vision. What had always been very familiar to me seemed foreign for the moment, and I felt a little fear rise inside of me. My hands griped the steering wheel with a very tense hold, and I began to pray for safety. Then the road forked and in my path were road blocks and a sign that said road ended. It was still pouring and there were no signs for a detour. I didn’t even recognize where I was along the route. I was able to pull over at this point. Because of our modern technology, I was able to pull up GPS and be guided along a new path. Soon I was on my way again just as the heavy rain began to let up.

I thanked God for getting me get through those intense moments safely. Sometimes, I scoff at all the modern technology such as GPS because I like to use old fashioned ways. On this day, I was thankful for GPS. It made me think about how just as the GPS guided me to safety and back on my path in a murky situation, God does that too on an exponentially larger scale for my whole life. I think others might have already made this analogy before, but on this day, the analogy that God is my GPS for doing life struck me wholeheartedly! I thought, “GPS…God Provides Security”!

Sometimes we get ourselves off the path that God has for us. Sometimes, we are blindsided by life. Whatever the circumstances are, God desires to always help us and guide us on the path that is His will for our lives. This road trip experience just reminded me to always look to God for directions, security, and peace of mind. He is the ultimate GPS!

It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.” Deuteronomy 31:8

Ever Feel Lost at the Gym?

Joining a gym is a great first step to becoming a healthier you! Many people join with that goal, but then feel at a loss for how to use all the equipment or even how to progress themselves along to reach their goals. A gym can sometimes feel very intimidating. As a personal trainer, helping woman learn about equipment as well as techniques for exercise and progression are some of the ways I help them. In a sense, a personal trainer can serve as a GPS for the gym and for your workout life.

Here are a few tips on maneuvering through the gym…

  • Usually, people are very friendly at gyms. If you’re not sure about how to use a piece of equipment, just ask someone who works there or another gym member.
  • If you see another gym member using balls, steps, ladders, dumbbells, battle ropes, or anything in the gym in new or interesting ways, strike up a conversation and learn something new.
  • Once you know how to use some of the equipment or weights properly, learn ways to progress. You can progress by increasing the weight by small amounts over time. Or you might choose to increase the number of reps using the same weight. You can also increase sets such as 2 sets of 15 to 3 sets over time.
  • Exercise with a friend and help each other learn.
  • Also, you can Google just about anything for exercise…just pay attention to the source as you would with anything you Google.
  • Have fun and don’t give up on working towards your fitness goals! Fitness is a good thing for body and soul!

” For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.” Hebrews 12:11

Every Breath I Take

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A few days ago, I came across the old 1983 song, “Every Breath You Take” by The Police. As songs sometimes do, it got stuck in my head. With just a small twisting of the words, though, I found that I was rewriting the song in my mind to reflect my heart’s desire and my heart’s absolute need. I certainly fail and don’t always do it, but this is how I want to live…continually connected and abiding in Jesus…the True Vine:

Every breath I take, every move I make, every bond I make, every step I take, Let it be from You.

Every single day, every word I say, every time I play, every night I pray, Let it be from You.

Big changes are happening in my life…a relocation move of over 2000 miles, a new state to live in, a new climate, new friends, a new church, a new home, and a new adventure with God. I can only handle it by walking hand in hand with God moment by moment.

“I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5

Maybe you remember the tune to the classic hit by The Police. I hope that my little play on words will offer you encouragement as you walk through your day.

May I remember that with every step I take, ” Thy word is a lamp unto my feet,
And light unto my path. ” Psalm 119: 105

Morning Vibes

“With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts.” Eleanor Roosevelt

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Today I read in Psalm 90:10, “Our lives last seventy years or, if we are strong, eighty years. Even the best of them are struggle and sorrow; Indeed, they pass quickly and we fly away.” I thought to myself…this is so true. Although, there are many highs in life, so often it seems that there is constant struggle or sorrow to deal with. Sometimes it’s big events and sometimes it’s a day to day struggle in areas to overcome. I have had some big sorrows in life, and sometimes, I have just had day to day stresses that can wear me down.

Then, a few more verses down in Psalm 90:14, I read…”Satisfy us in the morning with Your faithful love so that we may shout with joy and be glad all our days.” I thought to myself…this is so true!!! Despite the big sorrows and the daily grind in life, I cling to God who provides me with refreshing love every morning and because of that I can choose JOY all the days of my life…when things are good and when things are bad. The greatest JOY I have in life is a PEACE He gives me. I have felt it in the worst of times.

May you feel God’s PEACE and choose His refreshing JOY every morning no matter what you face. One day soon because our days are fleeting, God promises to those who know Him… “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes. Death will no longer exist; grief, crying, and pain will exist no longer, because the previous things have passed away.” Revelations 21:4

Know that “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

We can have JOY amidst our trials, and one day it can be all JOY and no more troubles. In the meantime…”Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be
prefect and complete, lacking in nothing.” James 1:2-4

Active Living

“Exercise and application produce order in our affairs, health of body, cheerfulness of mind, and these make us precious to our friends.” Thomas Jefferson

Purposefully living an active life is becoming more realized today as an absolute need as many are acknowledging that the more sedentary culture of convenience and computers is having adverse effects on our physical well-being and health. Whether young or old, our bodies need activity, movement, and purposeful exercise to stay comfortable and well. As a personal trainer, I have had the privilege of helping women learn some strategies for achieving goals that make their bodies and overall self feel better. Many of my clients are aging clients who have realized that they need to exercise to enjoy life in their 60’s and beyond. Whether their goals are weight loss, building back lean muscle, working on balance and flexibility, stress reduction, or just being able to play with their grandchildren, a variety of exercise variables are helping them to achieve a better quality of life. Exercise should include a variety of activities that combine working on balance, flexibility, core stabilization, cardio, agility, and strength.

I like to begin every morning with flexibility training by doing a few stretches that make me feel better for the day ahead. If you don’t already, try working on some of these aspects of exercise and strive towards a better healthier you!

12 Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own.
13 Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead,
14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 3:12-14

The “Pear”fect Day

Lovely Pears in Lindsay’s Garden

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We try very hard to plan perfect days. We try to plan perfect dinners, get-togethers, vacations, and special moments. So often though, things do not go as planned.

Fog Settles in on Ebby Landing

Recently, on a trip to the breathtaking Whidbey Island in the Pacific Northwest to visit my dad and step-mom, Lindsay, my husband and I had perfectly splendid adventures mixed with a few imperfect moments. One of those moments was when we were taking a morning hike that we had been looking forward to up a coastal ridge to see the beautiful vast view of the ocean from Ebby Landing. Well, fog settled in on our hike hiding the ocean view completely! Then, the drizzle of rain started. Because of our distance, we were drenched to the point of sloshing water in our shoes by the time we arrived back at our car. It was an interesting and fun hike with it’s own beauty in the fog, but rather disappointing for the effort we put into the hike to not see the views we had been anticipating.

Now, why did I title this article “The Pear-fect Day”? Back at my dad’s home that afternoon, I was enjoying the absolutely lush garden that Lindsay has created in their back yard! I found the pears on her pear tree a reminder to me of perfect peace!

Bursting Blooms from Lindsay’s Garden

The pear has represented important inner and outer qualities to many cultures over much of history. It was a sacred fruit in Greek and Roman mythology…”a gift from the gods”. It has represented over time and cultures…longtivity, comfort, fertility, immorality, prosperity, grace and nobility, inner peace, and affection. It has symbolized physical and spiritual nourishment.

For me, the pears growing on this particular tree reminded me of God’s perfect peace we have through knowing his son, Jesus Christ. The Bible makes many references to fruit and one of my favorite Bible verses is:

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5:22-23

These pears reminded me that when we are living in Him, and He is living in us, we are filled with the nature of Christ. That means we are filled with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. We can in turn bear these fruits when we are staying connected to the “True Vine”.

Remain in Me, and I in you. Just as a branch is unable to produce fruit by itself unless it remains on the vine, so neither can you unless you remain in Me.” John 15:4

This means that in those imperfect moments or days we can feel and express peace. We can find the joy and goodness in every moment even when things don’t go as planned.

There is one thing completely perfect in this world and that is “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights…” James 1:17.

“Pear This”… for a Healthy Snack

A pear is a complex carbohydrate and even though it is sweet, it is low on the Glycemic Index and also rich in fiber.

When I got home from Whidbey Island and restocked our refrigerator with groceries, I had to include some pears. I nourished myself spiritually and physically by enjoying sweet slices of a pear “paired” with slices of smoked Gouda cheese for a healthy snack. I thought about what the pear reminded me of on my trip while providing myself a complete protein (Gouda) and a complex carbohydrate rich in fiber (the pear). So grab yourself a pear today and while you are enjoying the nutritious and delightfully sweet taste, remember that we can strive to live a life filled with love, joy, and peace even during the very imperfect times by staying connected to the “True-Vine” who is the “founder and perfecter of our faith”!

“…let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:1-3