Category: family

The Valentine

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Valentine’s Day is an annual celebration of romantic love, friendship, and admiration. When the question, “What is love?” is asked, the answers take on many forms. Love is a word used frequently, much of the time overused and misused in ways that make it casual and lose its meaning. However, there are some very famous quotes about love bringing the word back up to a level of powerful importance once again.

” I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.” ~ Mother Teresa

“I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.” ~Martin Luther King Jr.

“We shall not long have love to man if we do not first and chiefly cultivate love to God.” ~ Charles Spurgeon

Entertainers like to chime in on “love” as well. Here are a couple…

“You always gain, by giving love.” ~ Reese Witherspoon

“It is a curious thought, but it is only when you see people looking ridiculous that you realize just how much you love them.” Agatha Christie

TRUE LOVE is more than a feeling! Love is more than an action! AND true love is not up for interpretation!

The real and full truth about love comes from knowing and experiencing that God Is Love! (1 John 4:8 and 1 John 4:16)

The question about love should not be, “What is love?”. The correct question about love is, “WHO IS LOVE?”.

“Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.” 1 John 4:8

“So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” 1 John 4:16

HOW CAN WE TAKE PART IN THIS TRUE LOVE? Abide in God and let Him abide in you. Ask Jesus to be your Lord and Savior and to live in your heart!

HOW CAN WE LOVE, AND THEN IN TURN LOVE OTHERS? Because He first loved us! (1 John 4:19)

HOW MUCH DOES GOD LOVE US? He loves us so much that He gave His Only Son for us!!

“For God loved the world in this way: He gave His One and Only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

HOW DO WE SHOW THIS LOVE?

“This is the most important,” Jesus answered: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. The second is: Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other command greater than these.” Mark 12:29-31

WHAT DOES LOVE LOOK LIKE WHEN WE LIVE IT OUT ACCORDING TO GOD’S PLAN?

“Love is patient, love is kind.
Love does not envy,
is not boastful, is not conceited,
does not act improperly,
is not selfish, is not provoked,
and does not keep a record of wrongs.
Love finds no joy in unrighteousness
but rejoices in the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.” I Corinthians 13:4-7

“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.” John 15:13

Valentine’s Day is upon us. It is a manmade day to celebrate love, particularly a romantic love. However, whether romantically involved or not, people have found fun ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Having been a teacher for 28 years, this day meant Valentine’s Day parties where the kids exchanged cards, and I received a lot of gestures of love!

How amazing it is that no matter the day, we can always experience a True Love that is more powerful than we can comprehend, never failing, and never ending! If you are a Christ-follower, than you have this Valentine from God:

“For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers,  nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:38-39

When we are a Christ-follower, we can claim on Valentine’s Day and everyday and into eternity that, “My beloved is mine, and I am his.” (Song of Solomon 2:16).

In 1 John 4:19 we learn that “We love because He first loved us.” Thanks to God’s goodness, I have had the opportunity to show love and receive love in many ways during my life. I hope you have too. I put together a little photo gallery with captions that exemplify expressions of love that I have been blessed by God to experience or take part in throughout my life. There have been mountains and valleys, but God’s love for me and the way He also demonstrates His love through others in my life has been the prevailing force that spurs me on!

May you experience the fullness of God’s love today and everyday, and like me, reflect on how His love has touched your life!

Our wedding day, February 24th, 2017
What joy to be a mother!
My students forming a heart to emphasize kindness in our community.
Dog Love…a blessing from God as a reminder of His unconditional love!
My mom is an example of selfless love…a life lived of giving to her children and an example of living a life of deep faith in God.
My dad holding me shortly after arriving home from the hospital. Japan 1968
Michael’s family on our wedding day…a new family to belong to and be loved by.
This sweet couple in Haiti lovingly wanted to participate in the VBS experience alongside the children. They wanted to be a part of the excitement of learning about God!
It’s so exciting to watch the ones we love accept Jesus into their hearts and follow in believer’s baptism.
Lifelong friends are so special! We taught together, shared time together in book club, walked beside each other in faith, and remain a dear group of friends to this day!
The joys of teaching! It’s also a happy day when the teacher and student unknowingly show up in matching boots.
The love of a grandma presents a whole other level of comfort and love!
When you and the one you love accidently match, it’s just more confirmation of how you were meant to be together!
More dog love with this special pooch and “girl’s best friend”!
Michael is such a good dad to his sons. He is a Godly dad because he faithfully follows Christ.
Sister time! Having my sisters means friends for life and a level of protection you feel knowing they will go to battle for you.
Again, dogs are such special friends! Rueger is the newest addition.
It’s great when we can share adventures with those we love.
These two are an expression of years and years of faithful love and devotion to one another.
Shoebox gifts in Haiti! Share a box of love and the love of Jesus with a child.
Such sweetness!

Know Your Roots

Read Time 4 Minutes

This is Grandma and me when I was 40 years old. Yes, I still sat on her lap!

When I was 13 years old and spending a few weeks with my Grandma, she showed me a book that was a conglomerate of stories passed down from the townspeople of North Platte, Nebraska. History came alive for me that day as I learned how my GGG grandfather came to settle in the mid 1800’s in the area known as Mason, Nebraska!

This experience began a lifelong passion for me to know my roots. I began interviewing the oldest known relatives I had on both my mom’s side and my dad’s side of the family. What I gained were many primary sources of information and stories passed down. What I felt was an excitement for history as I could place family members in every aspect of American history dating back to the French and Indian Wars of the 1750s! I also gained an overwhelming sense of who I am and why I feel certain compulsions that may have been instilled in me. I gained an idea of why I demonstrate certain characteristics and a sense of pride for what pulses through my veins.

Becoming a bit of an enthusiast for family history though has never included my getting involved in internet ancestry searches (I have not even taken the ancestry spit test, but I certainly wouldn’t mind doing so at some point). Everything I have comes straight from interviews and stories passed down verbally or in written form from direct descendants. And, WOW, do I have some stories!

So many things in life over the past 10-15 years have kept me from thinking much about family history, but a small moment recently rekindled my interest and caused me to dig into my file box of rich historical data completely related to my own genealogy.

In doing so, it made me pause and ponder…why do so many of us find such a yearning to know our roots…to search for “who we are” by investigating and studying our lineage? I think it’s because genealogy is God designed! We are not a random number. We are not a mistake! We are divinely planned, and God gave us our special heritage!

“For You created my innermost parts;
You wove me in my mother’s womb.
I will give thanks to You, because I am awesomely and wonderfully made;
Wonderful are Your works,
And my soul knows it very well.” Psalm 139: 13-14

God gave us our special story! This story gives us a sense of who we are and a sense of belonging. It gives us real stories from the past, and it gives us lessons to be learned from our own ancestors and from the grandparents we may have been blessed to personally know.

The Bible even shows us the value of genealogy. God’s Word is woven together by Jesus’s own genealogy designed by God! Matthew chapter 1 begins the New Testament with the Genealogy of Jesus Christ. This immediately demonstrates for us the divine connection between the Old and the New Testaments. It gives us a real historical record that can be verified. It affirms prophecy proclaimed in the Old Testament. It gives us real people’s stories from Jesus’s lineage. We can go back to the Old Testament and read about these real people and learn from their experiences. I believe God made genealogy an important aspect of His creation!

However, the most exciting part of my article today is even more important and even more special than our personal God-given biological genealogy. The most thrilling news is that when you ask Jesus into your heart to be your Lord and Savior, you are adopted into His family! You are immediately woven into His heritage. You are immediately an heir of the One True King! How wonderful that when you are a Christian, you have an even greater identity…one that is heavenly and eternal! Family history gets exponentially more exciting when you become a child of God!

“And if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, heirs according to the promise.” Galations 3:29

While I believe that it can be very enriching to know our roots, you may or may not have this ability to know your earthly heritage. Even when you do know your own family story, it is only a temporary one. No matter what the status is of your biological genealogy, the Good News is that we can all become children of God and become heirs with Christ! Through a spiritual adoption, we can call God, our Father! When you ask Jesus into your heart, you are freed from any earthly disappointments, heartaches, or bondage you may feel! The moment you ask Jesus to be your Savior, you receive a new identity in Christ and that makes for EVERLASTING ROOTS!!

“For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father!” The Spirit Himself testifies together with our spirit that we are God’s children, and if children, also heirs—heirs of God and coheirs with Christ—seeing that we suffer with Him so that we may also be glorified with Him.” Romans 8: 15-17

THAT IS AN AWESOME HERITAGE TO CLAIM!!!